Marriage Matters: Fight the Good Fight

Be Encouraged. Don't Give Up. Fight the Good Fight. Your Marriage is Part of the Good fight of Faith.

Marriage is a special and beautiful thing. Many don’t see it for what it really is. Marriage takes full time commitment and is forever growing and changing. Marriage is a blessing, and if we endure through our marriage not only in good times but in bad times too, you two will see it come to full fruition! 

I’m here today to tell you that whatever it is that you are facing, you are never alone. NO MATTER what it is that you’re going through. You are not alone! So don’t be afraid. Be encouraged! There are two sides to a struggling marriage. A lot of the time it has to do with a lot of lack in communication. More so than anything else, communication is absent in a relationship that is struggling. As uncomfortable as you may feel about a situation. It’s better to talk it through TOGETHER. Why? Because you’re going to talk about it anyway! The most common thing that people do is talk to the opposite sex about their relationship problems. I’m pretty sure you know what happens next. The person with problems will start to feel heard by this other person and then start to fall for them. It’s inevitable. It’s predictable. So stop and think about your situation. Talk to your spouse! 

Having been married for a while now, my husband and I had gone through many phases in our marriage. We’ve gone though many many mistakes and loads and loads of forgiveness for each other. We would not have survived with out constant forgiveness for one another. We've also learned that true love is produced in obedience to the Lord. This took time and effort from us. As we grew more mature, love and understanding became sweet when ripened. 

The most important aspect in marriage is Jesus Christ. I said it. He is the very thread that keeps the husband and the wife mended together. Without the understanding of Christ, we will never know what a marriage is supposed to be like. Jesus meant for a marriage to be forever. Just like His relationship with you. Now, I'm not saying divorce is all bad, nor am I anyone to say what is right or wrong for an individual. I am here though, to say that if your best interest is to have an abundant and overflowing marital relationship with your spouse, that is indeed possible! Will it be easy? NO. It will require FULL COMMITMENT from at least one spouse. Just like anything thing else that is successful, it will require almost all of your time and dedication. 

If you're reading this and you're thinking, wait, "I already have a great marriage"...I promise you it can be even better when you delve into knowing your maker. Another cold truth is that you may not have been married for that long yet. On the other hand...

I know some of you may have already checked out in your heart and is only reading this because a friend asked you to. I am glad that you're here today reading this because you need to know that there is hope in your marriage. God intends for your marriage to last forever. After all, He created marriage. He knows what lies in the depths of our hearts. It will take change from you first. Yes, you. I know that you may be the one being wronged, but change must start with you. Trust in the Lord and he will guide your steps to a truth that only a few will know about. I want to share this knowledge with you. This is your time now. To inherit what God has reserved just for you. 

Know Truth today. All battles in the mind can be overcome with Jesus Christ, your Lord and Savior. A battle in your relationships can all be controlled by getting a grip of your own mind. Ask your maker to help you fight the good fight. Proclaim your victory today!

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